Thursday, December 2, 2010

Church, Honor Your Leaders (a meditation on 1 Thessalonians 5:12-13)

Dear brothers & sisters, always -- but especially at this time of year -- honor the leaders who are working so hard for you, those whom God has given responsibility for urging and guiding you along in your obedience to Him. Overwhelm them with appreciation and love!

You'll never know how demanding their work can be or the price they pay for their service; never pass up an opportunity to show them that their efforts among you are not wasted. Embrace them and their families so that even those who came to you as strangers will have no doubt about your love and welcome.

Also make sure each of you does your part to get along among yourselves--when you don't, it makes leadership a burden you can't imagine.

 

God be with you and bless you all! -- db

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Friday, November 26, 2010

One More Thanksgiving

This seemed especially appropriate this year. Thanks to a treatment we were trying, I spent last Thanksgiving and Christmas fighting a migraine, unable to even think about food, crawling around on the bathroom floor. (Isn't it funny how soothing that cold tile feels...?) 
Anyway, yesterday I was able to feast with my family and celebrate with some of you online. It was time worth savoring and I'm grateful:

May God be praised now and forever.

Let us praise our God
of Whose bounty we have partaken

and through Whose goodness we live.

Praised be He, and praised be His name.

Blessed are You, Lord our God, King of the universe:

You sustain the world with goodness,
with grace,
with love and mercy.

You give food to every creature,
for Your love endures forever.

Through Your great goodness,
we have not lacked,
and may we never lack,
our daily bread.

God is great;
He nourishes and sustains all,
and deals bountifully with all,

providing food for all His creatures.

Blessed are You,
Lord who provides food for all.

Sustain Jerusalem,
the Holy City,
now and forever.


Blessed are You, Yahweh,
Who in His grace builds Jerusalem.

May He Who makes peace on high,
make peace for us,

and for Israel,

and all His people.

May God give strength to His people.

May God bless His people with peace.
 

Amen

(adapted from the Bir’khat haMazon,

the traditional Jewish Grace After the Meal)

Tuesday, November 2, 2010

Doors

I ran across this at Forbes:


  When one DOOR CLOSES another DOOR OPENS;
                but we often look so LONG 
                                       and so REGRETFULLY
                  upon THE CLOSED DOOR
             that WE DO NOT SEE THE ONES
                      which OPEN FOR US.
– Alexander Graham Bell
What doors are you facing?

Thursday, October 28, 2010

Untitled

It's that time again... The annual Project Valour-IT fundraiser has launched. What's that you say? Check this out from the Soldiers Angels website:

Project Valour-IT helps provide voice-controlled/adaptive laptop computers and other technology to support Soldiers, Sailors, Airmen and Marines recovering from hand wounds and other severe injuries.  Technology supplied includes:

  • Voice-controlled Laptops - Operated by speaking into a microphone or using other adaptive technologies, they allow the wounded to maintain connections with the rest of the world during recovery.
  • Wii Video Game Systems - Whole-body game systems increase motivation and speed recovery when used under the guidance of physical therapists in therapy sessions (donated only to medical facilities).
  • Personal GPS - Handheld GPS devices build self-confidence and independence by compensating for short-term memory loss and organizational challenges related to severe TBI and severe PTSD.

  • This is an outstanding project that really makes a difference. Navy's goal this year is $15,000. Do what you can!
    (And of course I sent you to the Navy link! Duh. If that's a problem for you then here's the generic link for the project.

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    Friday, October 8, 2010

    Meditation

    God Almighty--He is Lord
    above us all .
    He is the only true refuge--He alone can save.
    He spoke and the result? All Creation!
    He faithfully preserves those who walk with Him.
    He communicates with anyone willing to listen.
    Other "spiritualties" are just distractions.
    You know that you know this!
    Isn't it time to turn and give Him your attention?

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    Friday, June 18, 2010

    Greatest Campaign Ad Ever?

    This just may be it:

    And what an endorsement!

    Has It Been 100 Years Already?

    From USA.gov
    When did Father's Day begin?
    Thu, 17 Jun 2010 17:49:14 -0500

    Sunday, June 20, 2010, is the centennial celebration of Father's Day. Visit the FAQ at USA.gov for the history of the observance, a link to U.S. Census information on fathers, and more.
    What are y'all doing to mark the day? You are going to mark the day, right?
    (And, yup, that's this Sunday--better get movin'!)

    Saturday, June 5, 2010

    John Wooden Made Me (look like) a Genius

    Even at 99, it saddened me to hear of former UCLA basketball coach John Wooden's death. You see Coach Wooden once bailed me out of a really tight spot and in the process made me look far better than I deserved.

    It was back in the mid-80's and I was pastoring a small, rural church in the mountains of Kentucky. Kentucky, where basketball is king. To make ends meet I needed a part-time job and someone told me that the local elementary school was looking for someone to coach 6th/7th grade baseball and that their expectations weren't very high. While still in high school I'd coached and umpired a few years of little league and played/umpired a little slow-pitch along the way. It couldn't hurt to ask, right? So I interviewed.

    And surprise, surprise, I got hired! (This would be a really short, pointless post if I hadn't, right?) The money was just right for what I needed and, as a pastor, what a great way to plug into the community.

    That's when the principal dropped the bomb that I wasn't just the baseball coach, I was The Coach.

    Fine, I can do softball, too.

    Good, but we also have boys' basketball starting in two weeks. 

    My heart almost stopped. I'd played C League (as in, "no blood/no foul" basketball for wrestlers and football players) Intramurals in college but that was the end of my basketball experience. I could probably muddle my way through running a practice but I'd never even seen a play diagrammed let alone tried to execute one. Could I handle it?

    Two things turned out in my favor:
         1. They didn't ask much. In this four-team league, they had a history of finishing fourth.
         2. I was their only candidate.

    I was in. Now, what to do...

    A friend with connections snuck me into a university library where I checked out four or five books on basketball coaching. One of them was "Practical Modern Basketball" by John Wooden.

    I recognized Wooden's name but I was intimidated by both his reputation and the thickness of the book. I had picked it up more out of desperation than out of any illusion that I'd be able to put it to work at Sparksville Elementary. Was I ever wrong. Turns out there's a reason for Wooden's reputation!

    Even with his reputation in coaching, I don't think Wooden ever stopped referring to himself as a teacher, The reason for that came through in his book.

    There were much thinner books among the five I picked up that day but none were clearer or more helpful. I had finished the other four before bedtime that evening and didn't particularly feel smarter for the effort. Out of resignation more than anything, I turned to Wooden.

    I should have started there. Coach Wooden taught me how to run a practice and how to run a fast break. He talked about the chemistry to look for in your starting five and how to pick who to keep and who to cut (a problem I didn't have--you can't cut anyone when you only have eight players!) When I was finished reading I still didn't feel qualified but I at least felt ready to face the boys.

    The league consisted of three outlying rural elementaries and the central "town" school. Rural kids could go to their local school or choose the bus ride into town every morning. Just before practices started our biggest/strongest/most gifted kid decided his future was in town. Foreshadowing, anyone?

    So, four team league with an eight game home and home schedule. Coming into the end-of-season league tournament we were 5-3, a record-setting second place regular season finish! We won our first game in the tournament and faced the "town" team in the final.

    Now, this isn't Hoosiers (although it kind of looked like it--we had the pre-game talk about not letting the size of the gym and the crowd get to you.) We lost. But my boys looked good. And in the end it was much closer than anyone expected (except me--I didn't know all the history). See, in our county district there was no question about who would finish first--the town school--so the real bragging rights went with second place. Think of it as finishing first in the small school class.

    John Wooden had briefly made me a local hero, a genius. Of course, fame is fleeting but that remains a very bright spot in what became a high-adventure period in my life. i owe it to Coach.

    In his basketball retirement, Coach Wooden wrote many great books on life and faith and leadership. Like Practical Modern Basketball, the ones I've read are worth your time. And along the way, I've seen several of Coach Wooden's former players write that Coach never steered you wrong. It was certainly true for me that year.

    Thank you, Coach Wooden.

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    Tuesday, June 1, 2010

    He's Not Lost, He's Home

    I've been telling y'all about Tom's death. Here's a video his wife, Margo, made that was played at his funeral. In it she embodies the warrior spirit that has kept our nation safe. There's nothing I can add to her example of strength, courage and faith so I'm just going to respectfully step aside and let her speak.

    May God bless and keep you, Belkofer family.
    May you experience warmth and grace as His face turns toward you.
    May you always experience the tranquil security of being under His unfailing watch and constant care.

    Monday, May 31, 2010

    A Different Perspective on Memorial Day

    TheBeth says Happy Memorial Day and introduces Jay & Sara:
    .

    .I’ve know Sara since she was seconds old.  In fact, I cut her umbilical cord.  Jay is my son’s best friend.

    Their parents, Frank & Tiff are very good friends to David and me.

    I think that every parent out there would agree that the birth of a child is one of the greatest highlights in life.  Being there to witness the arrival of such a precious miracle- is a gift itself.

    So how did it happen that I was in the delivery room with Tiff- and not Frank?  How is it that I saw Sara’s bright, blinking eyes- heard her pissed off cry- before her own father?

    Frank is in the United States Air Force.  He found out that he was being deployed overseas when Tiff was eight weeks pregnant.  He left for a six month tour when she was four months along....

    Be sure to read the rest. It's common to talk about death and injuries but y'all civilians rarely bring up what business folks call "opportunity cost." The price of missing major family events and just plain watching your kids grow up. After awhile you stop counting the funerals, weddings, anniversaries, holidays, births and birthdays...

    We retired from the Navy and discovered that while we'd been following Uncle Sam around the globe, y'all had been building equity in your houses and getting on a cycle that made that second (or third) car fairly easy. Y'all had been building up a nicely stocked household while we'd been having to ditch the iron, the fans, the mixer and such 'cause they'd only work on the local electricity supply we were leaving behind.

    I'm extremely grateful that I was there for every one of our kids being born but I've got strong memories (and extreme gratitude) of a night when some folks escorted my wife and (then) two daughters into a conference room for a Valentine's Day videoconference. My wife says the ~20 month old went around for weeks pointing to the TV and wanting to talk to Daddy!

    So one more reason to stop that person in uniform and say "thank you." And cut 'em some slack if you see them eying that iron at your yard sale! ;-)

    Posted via web from Ferndale Tonight

    More for Memorial Day: God of the Living

    No only will we remember them but none ever are forgotten by God.

    I learned of this hymn because it shares a tune with The Navy Hymn. I often recite it at the graveside service for funerals and it seems especially appropriate for Memorial Day.

    God of the living, in whose eyes
    unveiled thy whole creation lies,
    all souls are thine; we must not say
    that those are dead who pass away,
    from this our world of flesh set free;
    we know them living unto thee.

    Released from earthly toil and strife,
    with thee is hidden still their life;
    thine are their thoughts, their works, their powers,
    all thine, and yet most truly ours;
    for well we know, where'er they be,
    our dead are living unto thee.

    Not spilled like water on the ground,
    not wrapped in dreamless sleep profound,
    not wandering in unknown despair
    beyond thy voice, thine arm, thy care;
    not left to lie like fallen tree;
    not dead, but living unto thee.

    Thy word is true, thy will is just;
    to thee we leave them, Lord, in trust;
    and bless thee for the love which gave
    thy Son to fill a human grave,
    that none might fear that world to see
    where all are living unto thee.

    O Breather into man of breath,
    O Holder of the keys of death,
    O Giver of the life within,
    save us from death, the death of sin;
    that body, soul and spirit be
    for ever living unto thee.

    A great reminder that none of us ever passes from God's mind. He's always watching over us no matter what our human perception of the circumstances might be.

    Posted via web from Ferndale Tonight

    The Navy Hymn

    The original four verses of The Navy Hymn. Many more verses have been added to cover the Navy's various communities.

    Eternal Father, strong to save,
    Whose arm hath bound the restless wave,
    Who bidd'st the mighty ocean deep
    Its own appointed limits keep;
    Oh, hear us when we cry to Thee,
    For those in peril on the sea!

    O Christ! Whose voice the waters heard
    And hushed their raging at Thy word,
    Who walked'st on the foaming deep,
    And calm amidst its rage didst sleep;
    Oh, hear us when we cry to Thee,
    For those in peril on the sea!

    Most Holy Spirit! Who didst brood
    Upon the chaos dark and rude,
    And bid its angry tumult cease,
    And give, for wild confusion, peace;
    Oh, hear us when we cry to Thee,
    For those in peril on the sea!

    O Trinity of love and power!
    Our brethren shield in danger's hour;
    From rock and tempest, fire and foe,
    Protect them wheresoe'er they go;
    Thus evermore shall rise to Thee
    Glad hymns of praise from land and sea.

    Why Memorial Day?

    Here's the order that made it official:

    HEADQUARTERS GRAND ARMY OF THE REPUBLIC

    General Orders No.11, WASHINGTON, D.C., May 5, 1868

    I. The 30th day of May, 1868, is designated for the purpose of strewing with flowers or otherwise decorating the graves of comrades who died in defense of their country during the late rebellion, and whose bodies now lie in almost every city, village, and hamlet church-yard in the land. In this observance no form of ceremony is prescribed, but posts and comrades will in their own way arrange such fitting services and testimonials of respect as circumstances may permit.

    We are organized, comrades, as our regulations tell us, for the purpose among other things, "of preserving and strengthening those kind and fraternal feelings which have bound together the soldiers, sailors, and marines who united to suppress the late rebellion." What can aid more to assure this result than cherishing tenderly the memory of our heroic dead, who made their breasts a barricade between our country and its foes? Their soldier lives were the reveille of freedom to a race in chains, and their deaths the tattoo of rebellious tyranny in arms. We should guard their graves with sacred vigilance. All that the consecrated wealth and taste of the nation can add to their adornment and security is but a fitting tribute to the memory of her slain defenders. Let no wanton foot tread rudely on such hallowed grounds. Let pleasant paths invite the coming and going of reverent visitors and fond mourners. Let no vandalism of avarice or neglect, no ravages of time testify to the present or to the coming generations that we have forgotten as a people the cost of a free and undivided republic.

    If our eyes grow dull, other hands slack, and other hearts cold in the solemn trust, ours shall keep it well as long as the light and warmth of life remain to us.

    Let us, then, at the time appointed gather around their sacred remains and garland the passionless mounds above them with the choicest flowers of spring-time; let us raise above them the dear old flag they saved from dishonor; let us in this solemn presence renew our pledges to aid and assist those whom they have left among us a sacred charge upon a nation's gratitude, the soldier's and sailor's widow and orphan.

    II. It is the purpose of the Commander-in-Chief to inaugurate this observance with the hope that it will be kept up from year to year, while a survivor of the war remains to honor the memory of his departed comrades. He earnestly desires the public press to lend its friendly aid in bringing to the notice of comrades in all parts of the country in time for simultaneous compliance therewith.

    III. Department commanders will use efforts to make this order effective.

    By order of
    JOHN A. LOGAN,
    Commander-in-Chief

    N.P. CHIPMAN,
    Adjutant General

    Official:
    WM. T. COLLINS, A.A.G.

    I don't have any original sources to cite but it's my understanding that General Logan was formalizing something good that folks had started doing on their own initiative. I've seen claims for both North and South as the originators of the tradition, going out to tend the graves of the fallen "enemies" in the hope that wherever their boys had fallen someone was doing the same.

    Posted via web from Ferndale Tonight

    We Will Remember

    So Real It Couldn't Be Aired!

    They push the limits so much... Doesn't it make you wonder what they don't show you? Here's one example that didn't make the cut!

    Funny Mythbusters episode that won't be aired

    Adam Savage, host of Discovery Channel’s show Mythbusters, shared a funny story at Maker Faire about a rejected episode that will never see the light of day. Did your mother ever tell you not to eat sugary cereal because the cardboard box was more nutritious than its contents? Well, make her watch this video:

    Heard any others like this?

    Posted via web from Ferndale Tonight

    Reveille

    Reveille for Memorial Day
    Thanks to all my shipmates, soldiers and airmen serving and who have served. God bless you all.

    Saturday, May 29, 2010

    Why "Daniel"...

    ...and not just "Dan?"

    Two factors here:

    1, The Bible has many examples showing the spiritual significance of a name; and,
    2. Shouldn't your name inspire you, give you something to aspire to, or both?

    So given that Dan means "judge" (value-neutral and something we all routinely do dozens of times a day) but Daniel means "God is my judge," this seemed like a no-brainer.

    (Can you think of a better reminder to do what's right than thinking "God is my judge?")

    That said, my last name apparently refers to "the open-space suitable for rough pasturage" where some very long-ago ancestor lived.

    Yeah... I don't know how you apply that either.

    A friend once explained that his full name meant "a wee pile of stones" -- a reminder that things could always be worse!

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    Tom, We hardly knew you...

    All of us who serve are clear about the risks and still we go. But with each Purple Heart or each flag at half-mast that we can put a face to, we catch ourselves saying that we wish it hadn't been that one. It's especially true with Tom. I posted a few days ago about him being killed in Kabul, Afghanistan. It seems incomplete without adding this:

    Lt. Col. Thomas P. Belkofer
    (June 2, 1965 - May 18, 2010)

    Lt. Col Thomas P. Belkofer, age 44, of the Army’s 10th Mountain Division at Ft. Drum, New York and formerly of Perrysburg Township, Ohio died on Tuesday, May 18, 2010 in a Taliban attack on a NATO convoy in Kabul, Afghanistan.  Tom was born on June 2, 1965 in Toledo, Ohio to Donald Jr. and Sharon (O’Keefe) Belkofer.  He graduated from Rossford High School in 1983 where he played football and was a standout wrestler. After High School he briefly attended Wright State University and the University of Toledo before transferring to Bowling Green State University where in 1992 he earned a bachelor’s degree in architectural and environment design technology and married his college sweetheart, Margaret (Margo) Maness.  He served in the Army National Guard before signing up for the ROTC program at BGSU and was commissioned into the Field Artillery as a Distinguished Military Graduate.  In 2002, he earned a Master of Business Administration degree from Syracuse University. 

    Lt. Col. Thomas Belkofer was an 18 year veteran of the United States Army. His operational troop leading assignments included Company Fire Support Officer, Platoon Leader and Battalion Adjutant for 3rd Battalion, 82nd Field Artillery at Fort Hood, Texas; and Battalion Fire Support Officer and Battery Commander for Alpha Battery, 3rd Battalion, 29th Field Artillery.

    His leadership duties included Fort Carson, Colorado, Fort Meade, Maryland, The Pentagon, Vicenza, Italy, and most recently, Fort Drum, New York.  He was deployed to Afghanistan in 2005-2006 as Resource Manager for Office of Security Cooperation in support of Operation Enduring Freedom. 

    In his career he was awarded the Legion of Merit (Posthumous), Bronze Star (1 Oak Leaf Cluster), Purple Heart (Posthumous), Meritorious Service Award (3 Oak Leaf Clusters), Army Commendation Medal (1 Oak Leaf Cluster), Army Achievement Medal (2 Oak Leaf Clusters), Joint Meritorious Unit Award, Army Reserve Component Achievement Medal, National Defense Service Medal, Armed Forces Expeditionary Medal, Afghanistan Campaign Medal, Global War on Terror Service Ribbon, Humanitarian Service Medal, Army Service Ribbon, Overseas Ribbon, Air Assault Badge, Parachutist Badge, the Army Staff Identification Badge, NATO Medal (Posthumous), and Combat Action Badge (Posthumous).  

    He led a life of honor and was known as a man who loved his Lord and Savior Jesus Christ, his family, his country, his Army and his beloved Ohio State Buckeyes, which he proclaimed wherever he was stationed. In Afghanistan in 2005, he could be found awake in the middle of the night so that he wouldn’t miss a Buckeye football game.    

    Surviving is his loving wife, Margo (Maness) Belkofer; daughters, Alyssa, age 15, and Ashley, age 11; parents, Donald and Sharon Belkofer; brothers, Don (Cathy) Belkofer and Doug Belkofer; father in-law, William (Eleanor) Maness; mother in-law, Pauline Maness.  Also surviving are many, aunts, uncles, cousins and in-laws.

    Family and friends may visit at the Sujkowski Funeral Home of Rossford, 830 Lime City Rd. on Friday, May 28, 2010 from 2 to 8 PM.  Funeral Services will be held on Saturday, May 29, 2010 at 10:30 AM at Cedar Creek Church, 29129 Lime City Rd., Perrysburg, OH.  Interment will take place in Arlington National Cemetery.  The family suggests those wishing to make a memorial contribution in Lt. Col. Thomas Belkofer’s name to please consider Military Ministries #2283732, Campus Crusade for Christ, Attn: Contributions, PO Box 628222, Orlando, FL  32862-8222
    "DULCE ET DECORUM EST PRO PATRIA MORI." 
    "It is sweet and fitting to die for one's country."

    from Horace's Ode III, 2, 13

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    Wednesday, May 26, 2010

    As Someone Who Was "Hazed..."

    ...pre-Navy and pre- us all deciding that hazing was bad, I have to admit that this headline scared me:

    No Lard for Navy Plebes in Yearly Ritual
    As they have for 70 years, Naval Academy students celebrated the end of their grueling first year by scaling a 21-foot obelisk. But this time, without a lard coating on the monument, students completed the task in minutes. ...More

    And, for the record, I've only heard about hazing that involved lard, grease, Vaseline, etc.!

    Posted via web from Ferndale Tonight

    Aren't You Glad...

    ...that you don't have to explain this:
    Buoy Falls From Navy Plane Into Home
    A sonar buoy from a P-3 Orion on a routine training flight fell 500 to 600 feet through the roof of a Mandarin, Fla., house, landing next to a bed that had recently been vacated....More